Relationship with Dereck

Question #3
What is your relationship like with your spouse? (graphic version)
Well I am not too sure what this means by graphic version,but I will give a little view into our marriage.
Dereck and I got married pretty young, like I just turned 20. We have a really close relationship and are each others best friends. There is no one I would rather be with over him.  We have had many challenges to face and overcome throughout our marriage (who doesn't?) but I think they have brought us closer.  Dereck never criticizes me, alone or in front of others, he is a very gentle person. When we have a problem we generally work it out pretty quickly.  Dereck doesn't voice his opinion too much unless I ask for it which is nice and not sometimes lol. I like to talk about things until there is nothing left to say about them and Dereck usually amuses me and listens and comments if needed even if its not that interesting to him. He is a GREAT listener.Dereck loves all sports and video games but has NEVER put it before me. If he plays video games it is when I am busy with something else, or sleeping, or gone. We have a lot of fun together, and we love to laugh together and at each other. He gets me and I get him. Its not always the easiest thing to do but we make the choice to stay in love and committed every single day.

Jessie Girl

Jessie started preschool on Monday, What a great anticipated day it was for her.  Like I did for Jazzy I want to document some fun little things abour her at the crazy age of 4.
Favorite food
bananas
mac and cheese
spaghetti
chicken nuggets
cantaloupe
grapes
peaches
green beans
corn
salad
tomatoes



Favorite thing to do
Play "house"
Play with babies
Play Dr.
Play with her sister
color/draw
shop for clothes and shoes
watch movies
make others laugh
wrestle

Her Personality
Jessie is still pretty shy and unsure about new situations at first. But Jessie likes to be with people. She is very aware of her surroundings, and likes to know whats going on at all times. Jess loves fashion; clothes, shoes, purses, makeup (I don't let her wear makeup except chapstick but she loves watching and pretending) When we go to stores she likes to put outfits together. Jessie has the sweetest little voice but when she gets excited her voice is super high pitched and hard to understand.  Jessie loves babies and is a great helper around the house. She enjoys cleaning and organizing and reading.

I am so proud of the beautiful young lady Jessie is turning into and I know God has great plans for her life. As she starts preschool, it makes me a little sad that her baby years are over but I know the next years are going to be great too!

Legit fears

Continuing right along here question 2 is-

2.describe 3 legitimate fears you have and how they became fears.

     - spiders&roaches...Im not sure how the spiders did but when I livedin China roaches were huge and I think it freaked me out for life.

      -a man following me...car, or walking or breaking into my home, I have no reason to fear this except for the fact that we live in a crazy world with crazy psycho people who like hurting others.

       -my family and friends dying without knowing and having a relationship with Jesus. It's very clear in the bible what happens to people who don't know and have a relationship with Jesus when they die. “I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me. John 14:6